Image Apia Samoa Harbour with words Takeaway From Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching Apia Samoa 07 May 2019

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Today’s takeaway from Free Virtual Coffeeshop Group Coaching – Apia, Samoa- 07 May 2019 is:

Topic: If you could lose one day of time, which day would you choose?

During today’s coaching from Samoa, we used the experience of a whole country losing a day by moving across the dateline as the basis of a coaching exercise addressing how we think about time from a head perspective and a heart perspective. Time can be perceived as something that seems to continually squeeze us in and can make us feel like failures because we don’t meet specific deadlines, certain achievements in life by the time we are “expected” to do so. It is easy to lose track of the undeniable fact that time on this planet is an extremely precious resource given to us in limited supply. So, shouldn’t you be the one, who defines, what use of this limited and irreplaceable resource is the right use of your time?

“The bad news is time flies. The good news is you’re the pilot.” –Michael Altshuler

Image of a beach in Fiji with words Takeaway From Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching Nadi Fiji 20 April 2019

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Today’s takeaway from Free Virtual Coffeeshop Group Coaching – Nadi, Fiji – 30 April 2019 is:

Topic: With 333 remote islands and a remote control what would you do?

“Your dream doesn’t have an expiration date. Take a deep breath and try again.” – Author KT Witten

The combination of coaching and the beautiful relaxing environment of the Island Nation of Fiji brought us to addressing the balance between “relaxing and doing little as a form of living, but also welcoming the challenges and difficulties that we have consciously chosen to make our lives worth living.” (e.g., jobs, trainings, change, relationships, and many other stresses)

Resources we carry in us may lead us to create more challenge in a relaxing environment, or more calm in a busy, high-stress environment. Recalling a favorite book, a happy memory, an almost forgotten ability like math, language, singing or even remembering someone you love is a large enough piece of light to pull you out of the darkness of self-doubt. A positive memory ignites gratitude. Gratitude reconnects us to love. Love embraces and reminds us we are not alone and we are enough!

Image Auckland New Zealand Harbour with words Takeaway From Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching via ZOOM 23 April 2019

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Today’s takeaway from Free Virtual Coffeeshop Group Coaching – Auckland, New Zealand – 23 April 2019 is:

“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.” –Marcel Proust

Topic: Sailing to New Zealand for new perspectives!

Today’s virtual coaching helped participants to question some old paradigms through new perspectives. Life is full of opportunities to help us heal past wounds. Some experiences can provoke us to take action while others can seem to force us to surrender and accept what is. Experiences can remind us of past hurts, provide new information that helps us better understand, and find a way to forgive and let go. Other experiences show us that we do have the strength to keep going.

Image The Forbidden City in Beijing with words Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching 21 May 2019

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Join me online via-ZOOM for my next Virtual Coffeeshop Group Coaching! It’s free! I will be coaching you live from Beijing China! No need to sign up! To join the online ZOOM Coffeeshop Group Coaching, just click the link below at the appropriate date/time-zone! 

Topic: Forbidden City Perspectives

Beijing for many evokes an image of the Forbidden City, a place in history that was reserved for the few who gained access by birth privilege but also people could gain access through achievement as worriers, administrators, sages and others. Is there a place in your life that you feel you would love to gain access to and yet feel you’re not accomplished enough to gain access. What is that place for you? Can you really not gain access? Or can you?

  • What is your Forbidden City?
  • What is of value that you would keep inside of your Forbidden City?
  • If you were the architect of the city, how would you design it to make access difficult?
  • What’s your motivation for access?
  • What might you need to give up to get inside?
  • If you could gain access, what would it give you?
  • What is precious about not having access?
  • What’s the value in staying where you are?
  • Imagine that you’ve always had access since birth, and that what’s holding you back is merely an illusion; what would you then want?

Be prepared to share something you discover from the questions above or add more questions to the group via chat during the ZOOM-Coffeeshop Coaching. Open your mind and together let’s uncover new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for your life!

NOTE: If the link above does not work, go to my Free Group Coffeeshop Coaching page on my webpage and at the appropriate time/date click on the ZOOM link found under “Next Free Virtual Group Coaching” list to join.

“Life is meant for awesome adventures, good friends, great coaches, and LOTS of coffee!” – Melody Taylor-Fliege

Coffeeshop

Virtual Coffeeshop coaching is confidential while using a more relaxed and informal platform that being part of an online coaching group can provide. An added twist of value that Melody brings to the online coffeeshop is the power of perspective. Perspectives are valuable in the coaching process for clarity, opening up and leaning into what’s new in any change process. Melody utilizes the energy of her live location in the world at the time of each Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching to help harvest new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for individual attendees.

We meet online via ZOOM over a cup of coffee, tea, or whatever is appropriate for your time zone. Although this isn’t corporate coaching, don’t be fooled into believing that the depth and amount of change to be achieved is any less. This style of coaching is just as committed as any other form of coaching just experienced in a more gentle and relaxed way of coaching support, encouragement and none-judgmental accountability.These group coachings usually last 30 minutes, and they are FREE! For my worldwide regulars just click on the ZOOM link on my Free Coffeeshop Coaching webpage at the appropriate date/time-zone of the topic you desire from the list!

If you are struggling with big changes in your life, need to make a decision, or just need to be heard, coffeeshop coaching virtual or in-person can be the perfect platform for you.

Coaching is a productive relationship enabling YOU to:

  • Creatively explore solutions
  • Prevent self-sabotage
  • Take actions that move YOU forward
  • Achieve YOUR goals
  • Attain clarity in what YOU want
Image Sky view of Sydney Australia with words Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching Sydney Australia 10 May 2019

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Join me online via-ZOOM for my next Virtual Coffeeshop Group Coaching! It’s free! I will be coaching you live from Sydney Australia! No need to sign up! To join the online ZOOM Coffeeshop Group Coaching, just click the link below at the appropriate date/time-zone! 

Topic: A Few Down Under Perspectives

No worries mate, Sydney gives plenty of perspectives to apply to what you want most in these virtual coffeeshop coachings. From the perfect weather perspective, a vegemite sandwich perspective, involving singing an opera perspective, the boldly bouncing kangaroo perspective, or looking through a view of what an Aborigine might think about what you want most. Starting out as a prison colony eventually liberating itself gives rise to the question of, “How am I freeing myself from what seems to be holding me back?” Where you are right now is not everything. Incentives to look for new perspectives are all over; open yourself up!

  • Is what you want most better expressed by the bread or the vegemite?
  • What do you think an Aborigine might say about what you want most?
  • What part of what you want would the kangaroo kick away?
  • If all of a sudden singing became your language, what would the tune be of what you want most?
  • G’day, mate! If every day were perfect, what is ideal about this day?

Be prepared to share something you discover from the questions above or add more questions to the group via chat during the ZOOM-Coffeeshop Coaching. Open your mind and together let’s uncover new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for your life!

NOTE: If the link above does not work, go to my Free Group Coffeeshop Coaching page on my webpage and at the appropriate time/date click on the ZOOM link found under “Next Free Virtual Group Coaching” list to join.

“Life is meant for awesome adventures, good friends, great coaches, and LOTS of coffee!” – Melody Taylor-Fliege

Coffeeshop

Virtual Coffeeshop coaching is confidential while using a more relaxed and informal platform that being part of an online coaching group can provide. An added twist of value that Melody brings to the online coffeeshop is the power of perspective. Perspectives are valuable in the coaching process for clarity, opening up and leaning into what’s new in any change process. Melody utilizes the energy of her live location in the world at the time of each Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching to help harvest new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for individual attendees.

We meet online via ZOOM over a cup of coffee, tea, or whatever is appropriate for your time zone. Although this isn’t corporate coaching, don’t be fooled into believing that the depth and amount of change to be achieved is any less. This style of coaching is just as committed as any other form of coaching just experienced in a more gentle and relaxed way of coaching support, encouragement and none-judgmental accountability.These group coachings usually last 30 minutes, and they are FREE! For my worldwide regulars just click on the ZOOM link on my Free Coffeeshop Coaching webpage at the appropriate date/time-zone of the topic you desire from the list!

If you are struggling with big changes in your life, need to make a decision, or just need to be heard, coffeeshop coaching virtual or in-person can be the perfect platform for you.

Coaching is a productive relationship enabling YOU to:

  • Creatively explore solutions
  • Prevent self-sabotage
  • Take actions that move YOU forward
  • Achieve YOUR goals
  • Attain clarity in what YOU want
Image Apia Samoa Harbour with words Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching Apia Samoa 07 May 2019

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Join me online via-ZOOM for my next Virtual Coffeeshop Group Coaching! It’s free! I will be coaching you live from Samoa! No need to sign up! To join the online ZOOM Coffeeshop Group Coaching, just click the link below at the appropriate date/time-zone! 

Topic: If you could lose one day of time, which day would you choose?

Samoa has some interesting perspectives that can be utilized in coaching. It is one of few countries that switched from driving on the right to driving on the left. It could be interesting to think about what that would do to your thinking process if you lived there during that time. In time perspective they used to be where the day ends then switched to being where the day starts. They lost a day when they switched forward from being Western Hemisphere to being Eastern Hemisphere.

  • If you could lose a day of time, which day would you choose? Why?
  • Look over your left shoulder and ask, “What do I want most right now?” pause for a moment and notice what comes up. Then look over your right shoulder and ask the same question, stop again and observe what comes up.
  • What’s the same?
  • What’s different?
  • What changed?
  • What is time to me?
  • If now is not the time, when is?

Be prepared to share something you discover from the questions above or add more questions to the group via chat during the ZOOM-Coffeeshop Coaching. Open your mind and together let’s uncover new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for your life!

NOTE: If the link above does not work, go to my Free Group Coffeeshop Coaching page on my webpage and at the appropriate time/date click on the ZOOM link found under “Next Free Virtual Group Coaching” list to join.

“Life is meant for awesome adventures, good friends, great coaches, and LOTS of coffee!” – Melody Taylor-Fliege

Coffeeshop

Virtual Coffeeshop coaching is confidential while using a more relaxed and informal platform that being part of an online coaching group can provide. An added twist of value that Melody brings to the online coffeeshop is the power of perspective. Perspectives are valuable in the coaching process for clarity, opening up and leaning into what’s new in any change process. Melody utilizes the energy of her live location in the world at the time of each Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching to help harvest new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for individual attendees.

We meet online via ZOOM over a cup of coffee, tea, or whatever is appropriate for your time zone. Although this isn’t corporate coaching, don’t be fooled into believing that the depth and amount of change to be achieved is any less. This style of coaching is just as committed as any other form of coaching just experienced in a more gentle and relaxed way of coaching support, encouragement and none-judgmental accountability.These group coachings usually last 30 minutes, and they are FREE! For my worldwide regulars just click on the ZOOM link on my Free Coffeeshop Coaching webpage at the appropriate date/time-zone of the topic you desire from the list!

If you are struggling with big changes in your life, need to make a decision, or just need to be heard, coffeeshop coaching virtual or in-person can be the perfect platform for you.

Coaching is a productive relationship enabling YOU to:

  • Creatively explore solutions
  • Prevent self-sabotage
  • Take actions that move YOU forward
  • Achieve YOUR goals
  • Attain clarity in what YOU want
Image of a beach in Fiji with words Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching Nadi Fiji 20 April 2019

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Join me online via-ZOOM for my next Virtual Coffeeshop Group Coaching! It’s free! I will be coaching you live from Fiji! No need to sign up! To join the online ZOOM Coffeeshop Group Coaching, just click the link below at the appropriate date/time-zone! 

Topic: With 333 remote islands and a remote control what would you do?

Where you are right now is not everything. Incentives to look for new perspectives are all over; open yourself up! Fiji, one of the happiest countries of the world is flourishing with many beautiful colors, and you’ll find time runs VERY SLOWLY… we have the watches they have the time! However, the Ocean is always coming and leaving on time with its low tide and high tide. Perspectives can change with experiencing fire dancing and experiencing the relaxing effect of drinking the traditional root of the Kava plant. A clear ocean sunrise perspective, palm trees and sandy beach perspective, the smile perspective, the color perspective; can you think of more?

  • If someone asked you if you are happy, what would you say?
  • Painting what you want most in feel-good colors, does anything change? If so, what?
  • If you were stranded on a remote island, what would you do with your time?
  • What are the most valuable resources in this situation and how can you apply them to what you currently want most out of life?
  • What’s important about the fast pace, hustle, and bustle of what you want most out of life?
  • Imagine what you desire most, and at the same time imagine diving deep into a quiet turquoise blue sea! Feel yourself being wrapped in a blanket of water! Listen to the silence! What now becomes most important about what you want, desire, need?
  • What else do you notice?

Be prepared to share something you discover from the questions above or add more questions to the group via chat during the ZOOM-Coffeeshop Coaching. Open your mind and together let’s uncover new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for your life!

NOTE: If the link above does not work, go to my Free Group Coffeeshop Coaching page on my webpage and at the appropriate time/date click on the ZOOM link found under “Next Free Virtual Group Coaching” list to join.

“Life is meant for awesome adventures, good friends, great coaches, and LOTS of coffee!” – Melody Taylor-Fliege

Coffeeshop

Virtual Coffeeshop coaching is confidential while using a more relaxed and informal platform that being part of an online coaching group can provide. An added twist of value that Melody brings to the online coffeeshop is the power of perspective. Perspectives are valuable in the coaching process for clarity, opening up and leaning into what’s new in any change process. Melody utilizes the energy of her live location in the world at the time of each Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching to help harvest new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for individual attendees.

We meet online via ZOOM over a cup of coffee, tea, or whatever is appropriate for your time zone. Although this isn’t corporate coaching, don’t be fooled into believing that the depth and amount of change to be achieved is any less. This style of coaching is just as committed as any other form of coaching just experienced in a more gentle and relaxed way of coaching support, encouragement and none-judgmental accountability.These group coachings usually last 30 minutes, and they are FREE! For my worldwide regulars just click on the ZOOM link on my Free Coffeeshop Coaching webpage at the appropriate date/time-zone of the topic you desire from the list!

If you are struggling with big changes in your life, need to make a decision, or just need to be heard, coffeeshop coaching virtual or in-person can be the perfect platform for you.

Coaching is a productive relationship enabling YOU to:

  • Creatively explore solutions
  • Prevent self-sabotage
  • Take actions that move YOU forward
  • Achieve YOUR goals
  • Attain clarity in what YOU want
Image Auckland New Zealand Harbour with words Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching via ZOOM 23 April 2019

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Join me online via-ZOOM for my next Virtual Coffeeshop Group Coaching! It’s free! I will be coaching you live from New Zealand! No need to sign up! To join the online ZOOM Coffeeshop Group Coaching, just click the link below at the appropriate date/time-zone! 

Topic: Sailing to New Zealand for new perspectives!

What does Auckland, New Zealand bring to your mind? A beautiful harbor filled with sailboats or great surfing spots, food tastes and smells influenced with indigenous Maori culture, a vast metropolis with a view from its Sky Tower or bungee jumping off its Harbour Bridge, a relaxed hike with breathtaking landscapes or even the Hobbiton Movie Set from “The Lord of the Rings” and “The Hobbit” movies.

New Zealand creates a unique polar opposites perspective for coaching, with two polar opposites in one island nation much smaller than China or USA. It’s a nation with two distinct climate zones; mild and subtropical in the North, while the South can feel the proximity of the Antarctic polar region so, Southern New Zealand is a destination for winter sports enthusiasts. Zooming the perspective in a bit more; we all have polar opposites, one day stuck in ego trying to be right and the next day a loving partner or supportive friend.

  • How can you give space (accept the existence of both) in your daily life for your polar opposites?
  • How can you find a balance between your polar opposites?
  • What do you want most in life?
  • Try focusing on what you want most, and at the same time imagine bungee jumping off Auckland’s Sky Tower or Harbour Bridge! It’s a free jump so you can repeat it as many times as you want.
  • What becomes most important before, during and after the jump?
  • What else do you notice?
  • If what you want most in life was a film, which scenes stand out? And why?

Be prepared to share something you discover from the questions above or add more questions to the group via chat during the ZOOM-Coffeeshop Coaching. Open your mind and together let’s uncover new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for your life!

NOTE: If the link above does not work, go to my Free Group Coffeeshop Coaching page on my webpage and at the appropriate time/date click on the ZOOM link found under “Next Free Virtual Group Coaching” list to join.

“Life is meant for awesome adventures, good friends, great coaches, and LOTS of coffee!” – Melody Taylor-Fliege

Coffeeshop

Virtual Coffeeshop coaching is confidential while using a more relaxed and informal platform that being part of an online coaching group can provide. An added twist of value that Melody brings to the online coffeeshop is the power of perspective. Perspectives are valuable in the coaching process for clarity, opening up and leaning into what’s new in any change process. Melody utilizes the energy of her live location in the world at the time of each Virtual Coffeeshop Coaching to help harvest new perspectives and valuable takeaway tools for individual attendees.

We meet online via ZOOM over a cup of coffee, tea, or whatever is appropriate for your time zone. Although this isn’t corporate coaching, don’t be fooled into believing that the depth and amount of change to be achieved is any less. This style of coaching is just as committed as any other form of coaching just experienced in a more gentle and relaxed way of coaching support, encouragement and none-judgmental accountability.These group coachings usually last 30 minutes, and they are FREE! For my worldwide regulars just click on the ZOOM link on my Free Coffeeshop Coaching webpage at the appropriate date/time-zone of the topic you desire from the list!

If you are struggling with big changes in your life, need to make a decision, or just need to be heard, coffeeshop coaching virtual or in-person can be the perfect platform for you.

Coaching is a productive relationship enabling YOU to:

  • Creatively explore solutions
  • Prevent self-sabotage
  • Take actions that move YOU forward
  • Achieve YOUR goals
  • Attain clarity in what YOU want
Image Beijing Financial District at Dusk or Dawn with words Takeaway From Coffeeshop Coaching Beijing 18 April 2019

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Today’s takeaway from Free Coffeeshop Group Coaching – Beijing, China – 18 April 2019 is:

“The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.” –Steve Furtick

Love conquers all. Love is the light in the shadow of our emotions. Love dissolves fear. Love finds a way to redirect self-sabotaging thoughts into positive solutions by creatively questioning what we DO WANT!

  • How am I loving myself right now?
  • What is the light in my heart telling me right now?
  • What three things am I most grateful for right now?
Image Great Wall of China with words Coffeeshop Coaching From Beijing China Via ZOOM 20:00 GMT+8hrs 16 April 2019

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Today’s takeaway from Free Virtual Coffeeshop Group Coaching – via ZOOM – 16 April 2019 is:

A few participants’ thoughts to share from the topic, “Power in the walls you create!”

The challenge with the question, “What is structures in my life,” gave me a kick-start to even get involved into the thought process of examining the role of the structures in my life, both the ones I created and the ones that I volunteer to be a member of like my job.

The question “How can I restructure one of my routines to help me push past an obstacle in my path of achievement?” seems to click with me! I hadn’t thought of looking at my routines that way before!